The art of kissing.

We watched the following clip in my Sociology class today.

Women do tend to use the first kiss as a judgment of whether or not the guy is worth their time. On the other hand, I think that there is another part that needs to be included in this video. Some women, like me, would rather a guy just spontaneously (or rather sponataneously from the girl's perspective) grab them and kiss 'em! This kiss doesn't always turn out well, but the fact that the guy had enough gumption to just do it, is incredibly attractive. I actually hate the doorstep scene. Even if I really like the guy, I would do everything in my power to avoid the silly moment of awkward staring when the guy obviously wants to kiss the girl, and she wants him to, but neither one knows what to do about it. Why exactly is it a rule for the guy to wait until the doorstep to give the girl a kiss? Why not kiss her while you're relaxed and having a good time? It would catch you both off guard, but if both parties want the kiss, then it won't be awkward afterward. Of course, if the girl didn't want the kiss, she has the right to slap you, but you know guys, you win some you lose some. Also, it's the girls fault for sending "I like you" vibes on the date. First kisses are hardly ever great, but women will let that slide if the guy makes the moment work. Most women would rather the spontaneous thing anyway. That's not to say guys can go taking advantage of girls, but a lot of the time it's pretty obvious if the girl likes you. If you can't tell, then don't kiss her until you know for sure; it'll save you from a slap on the cheek or a shove out the door.

In conclusion, guys, man up.